Better Sex Collective

Beyond the Kink, What Makes it “Click”

The Experimentalist is never truly over…

Instead, as you learn of yourself and your partner your interests in particular kinks and "how" you want to partake in them becomes more refined with time. Even when you begin to branch into unknown territories of pleasure you know exactly where to stimulate your desires for the fullest experience.

Remember Kink is Creative

That being said for all my new kinksters out there. Kink is far more creative and innovative about what you can experience than you had previously thought.

Choking, Gagging, or Asphyxiation? Breath Play
Knives? Sharps Play
Piss kink? Water sports
There's also wax play, food play, and plenty more

There’s a more general name that encompasses the more nuanced experiences within the kink you may be curious about. But why would you care about being general if you're looking for something specific?

Because it's better to understand that there are multiple ways to enjoy an experience than to believe to be trapped by only one. Especially if something were to occur where that experience is no longer accessible to you in that particular way.

Water Sports

Not the swimming and surfing kind, the "Golden Shower" kind.

Water sports, the kink version, has been slowly increasing in popularity as squirting has become a more popular topic. The terms involved can be defined as

Water sports - kink where a person is attracted to just the act of peeing. Even more specifically the act of being peed on or peeing on someone else
Omorashi - originating from Japan, a fetish where a person becomes aroused from having a full bladder/wetting themselves, or from seeing someone else have a full bladder or wet themself
Squirt(ing) - the ejaculation of a liquid other than urine from the vulva's urethra during an orgasm

Now squirting is more of a liner, but it can still fit into water sports depending on what you enjoy! But otherwise, water sports is predominantly for activities involving pee and therefor you should plan ahead for all your environments to get wet and messy.

Black square shower head misting yellow water with a teal green subway tile background

Water Sports Continued

Why or how can someone be into this?

Honestly, not everyone has the exact same reason for being aroused by this type of kink. For some, it's the general Dominant and Submissive aspects of it - having control or being controlled for something as primal as having to pee. For others it can be the humiliation aspect of being peed on, being forced to pee yourself, even "wetting the bed". Some may even just enjoy the idea of literally being covered in their partners fluids. People may discover they are into water sports in the most uncanny ways.

Remember

This is still a sharing of fluids. Ensure there are no open wounds that could be infected.

Preparation

Considering this is water sports, prepare for everything beneath you and your partner to get wet. This is why some people will opt to enjoy this kink in rooms with easy-to-clean flooring like a bathroom. Otherwise some good investment items would be: waterproof mattress protector, liquid absorbent blankets, even a pack of pee absorbent pads.

Drink lots of water at least 1 hr beforehand to ensure you're hydrated. Establish your safewords. Be ready to have fun.

Clean Up

If you planned ahead where you wanted to have fun, clean up should be easy! If you didn't, grab some towels to provide you and your partner a dry area to rest, and once you're rested... it's time to clean!